Oh hey. Um, I kept procrastinating got busy? In reality, I started this at the same time that I started a new book I’m really into, and a goal of going to the gym more often, plus I still go and do work at a place that pays me money during the day. I also like to watch shows with Nick, play with Cobalt, try new recipes, and various other things in the evening time. OK, I know this is where my mom-friends probably get furious, but for now this is the only reality I know, so how on earth do people do all the things they want AND work long hours? Do you know how amazing I could be at life if I had more free time? Don’t get me wrong, jobs are good, just maybe like ten more free hours a week would be nice. Instead, I spend about that much time driving. Maybe I need to find a way to work out and blog while driving. I’ve figured out how to do plenty of other things while driving (apply make-up, talk on the phone, check my email at red lights, practice defensive driving, wear a seatbelt, and a helmet, and whatever else makes a firefighter who’s seen way too many bad things feel better.) Anyway, I’m back now. Let’s talk indecision.
Technically, I am pretty good at making decisions. After I consider countless options, narrow them down, throw in some more options I didn’t consider the first time, narrow those down, and then test those options in many different scenarios and talk them through with various people who don’t care. That’s pretty much how picking paint colors for the house went down. In a shmillion simple steps this is how I did it:
- Searched incessantly for inspiration online – thanks to blogs like the one’s I’ll reference later, not to mention Houzz, on which I have spent way too many hours of my young life.
- Pulled out my stock of paint chips, and then realized my taste has changed somewhat in a relatively short period of time. I hate that. It makes me think anything I decide I love today I’ll hate in two years.
- Took a trip to Benjamin Moore, Lowes, and Home Depot to make sure I didn’t miss out on the perfect color that might be hiding at any one of those locations. (Am I the only one who’s impressed that I only went to 3 places? Sherwin Williams and a few others almost got added to the list but my head was spinning enough).
- Threw away any colors that I used in my last house. The reason is two-fold. One, I shared that house with someone else. There, glad that band aid is ripped off blog style. And two, it would be really boring. New house, new life, new colors.
- Decided on a basic color for the main living space like either grey, blue, off-white, yellow….I knew pretty quickly that I was drawn to a nice airy, beachy grey. I wanted something that would complement anything I decided to change later on, and something that didn’t feel too dark or bold, or beige.
- Decided on complimentary colors for the bedrooms, dining room, and kitchen. I wanted to make sure there was a nice flow room-to-room without too many different colors or tones going on.
Pete, the nice man at Benjamin Moore, noticed my growing confusion as I switched around dozens of different combinations of swatches on the table in his store. So he brought me a piece of white paper and taped one swatch from each color family to it (about 4 colors) and said here’s your pallet. Aside from switching two of them to a slightly lighter/muddier shade, he pretty much nailed it. He even talked me down off of my crazy ledge (Nick appreciated this especially) and convinced me to buy about half as many samples as I originally wanted to. Pete is pretty much the best ever. He even came in on a weekend when the store was closed because I called his cell phone with a “paint emergency”. Those exist right? I mean, no one forced him to give me his cell phone number…
Here I am practicing Pete’s paper palette (hello alliteration) method for another two hours later that night just to be sure.
The living room choices were:
Thank you Emily Henderson‘s blog for the inspiration and the Ryan Gosling photos
Light or Revere Pewter
The Bedroom & Kitchen choices were……
Alas, the moment no one’s been waiting for! I made a decision. See, decision-maker.
The living room, stairs, and upstairs hallway ………
Reminder, I took crap phone photos when we were first moving in. Also, I don’t want to show too much of the walls because I don’t want to give away other projects that are coming up, so, random living room corner it is!
But you can’t see that before and after yet 😉 We’ll talk about that…on another time.
I was right with my gut on the owl gray and woodlawn blue, but the last one surprised me. I thought for sure I wanted palladian, but it was just a little too bold for the size of the kitchen. Nelson blue was lighter, toned down, and flowed better into Owl Gray.
I suppose, to match this erratic post and go completely out of order, I should mention that I had already painted ALL the trim in the house before purchasing final paint colors. I skipped that step because I forgot/didn’t think there was any reason why I would need to take pictures of it at the time. Basically, after we bought the house we had a couple weekends to go over there to paint and get new carpet installed before moving in because we still had our old apartment rented out for another month.
Well, one of those weekends Nick was gone teaching. So that means I got to paint a whole house of trim for two whole days of a weekend! In an empty house that I just met. With no heat. Oh sorry, Cobalt says he was there too and did most of the work…then he grumbled and rolled
his eyes over. BUT, I did get to listen to obnoxious Christmas, 90’s, and whatever other music I pleased while trying not to fling to much paint as I danced around like a lunatic.
I can’t complain too much because after all the trim was painted and the paint colors picked out, I didn’t have to lift a brush or roller on the rest of the house. Here’s a quick pro/con list to dating a firefighter for those of you keeping track:
- Saves lives
- Comes with group of other firemen willing to do labor & take pride in their work…not sure the pro list needs much more than that but…
- Captain cleanliness anyone?
- They also have really neat outfits like turnout gear and badges and class A uniforms
- I’ll stop.
- Super safety patrol about everything, especially driving (maybe that’s like half a con)
- Leaves at any given moment for unknown lengths of time (for example, in the middle of the night, or during our favorite shows that I CAN’T CONTINUE WATCHING WITHOUT HIM, etc. etc.)
- I said I wouldn’t complain too much 🙂
Here are a couple snapshots they managed to get of the firefighter painting party…..
Thank you CFD xoxoxo
There’s nothing like being told later “we decided to go ahead and pry the mantel off with a Halligan bar”…
And naturally, as soon as the paint dried…
But, they DID refuse to leave behind our Christmas tree,which I loved…
I also love even more that they helped paint after they already helped us move. Seriously, nothing like em.
Ok, glad we’re all caught up. Next time I’ll have to talk about decorating the living room and address one of my favorite projects, making pallet shelves, which I actually did at the old apartment, RIP, so I can show you more of the walls. I should have added “very handy, comes with many tools” to the pro list. So, I will see you there, or I will see you on another time.
Don’t fowget me. I’ll just wait heohw in the box that says wittle stuff.